DeAnna Murphy is a leadership consultant, coach, facilitator, and speaker, and the founder/CEO of Strengths Strategy Inc. and its affiliate, People Acuity, where she consults businesses, coaches, and individuals. She was born in Provo, Utah, but grew up in Canada, and met her husband at Ricks College. They had three children and live in Minneapolis, Minnesota, where she has served as Stake Relief Society President.
5:25 How do we help ourselves and others stay fully engaged?
7:35 How can you understand your auxiliaries strength?
8:10 How can we apply engagement at home?
8:35 To be meaningfully engaged there must be a sense of connection, and an ability to understand your contribution and purpose alignment.
12:00 Understand your role/purpose
12:45 What is the bigger “why”?
14:00 Doctrine and Covenants 43:8,9 The Lord teaches Joseph Smith by council
15:20 Ask good questions/teach by council
19:30 Get correct counsel on core principles.
22:20 To feel alignment while teaching ask:
What did you notice about that?
What’s important about that?
What does that mean?
What will you do? (How would you apply that?)
Has anyone had an experience like that?
24:15 John 17- Why does He want us to be one so badly? That my joy might be fulfilled in you.
28:35 Which of these points in the lesson are important to Heavenly Father?
30:45 The council creates interdependence.
32:20 There is no engagement from a talking head.
33:20 Co-dependence is the primary voice of us vs. them.
34:15 There should not a be a “you people” in our church culture.
36:20 Our value does not go up and down like the stock market.
38:15 When people begin to see their value through the lens of strength they see God’s DNA in them.
39:00 We need to understand our identity, but have lost it
41:50 If I’m not judging myself, I feel connected to other people and to God
42:10 Four categories of strengths
50:30 We are drawn to those like us because they validate us, and afraid of those who are unlike us because we do not understand them.
53:45 We disengage when our needs are not being met.
54:30 What does my patriarchal blessing show me about my strengths?
57:40 What can you count on me for? What do I need to feel confident?
59:00 The power of one-on-one ministering
1:00:00 During one-on-one interviews, pull up an extra chair for the Savior to sit with you as you minister
1:00:50 Be okay with no knowing, and always pray with them.
1:01:25 During the interviews ask them: How are you doing? What are you learning from the Spirit in your personal study? What are you learning in your assignment? These questions create connection.
1:05:00 Finally, ask tell me about the people that you are serving and what do they need?
1:06:15 Everyone is a “one” and there is great power in ministering and one-on-one interviews.
1″06:55 Ask your children—even grown children—what the Spirit is teaching them.
1:09:00 Experience with a group in Abu Dhabi learning six strengths strategies.
1:16:45 Read Moses 1:6 with your name instead of Moses: He will magnify your gifts through Him
Print version of Shift Up!: Strengths Strategies for Optimal Living
Ebook version of Shift Up!: Strengths Strategies for Optimal Living
DeAnna’s How I Lead interview: Mentoring Relief Society Presidents Through Love
Claiming Your Contribution (for missionaries)
Gallup StrengthsFinder (CliftonStrengths Assessment)