Someone recently turned my attention toward this paragraph in the handbook:
Sometimes the same people are called repeatedly to leadership positions. This can overburden them and their families and take opportunities away from others. Seek to give all members opportunities to serve and grow. (4.2.6)
Many of us have experienced STP (Same 10 People) being called to leadership positions repeatedly.
It’s natural to assume that bishoprics or stake presidencies are missing this paragraph and going for who they think are the safe options.
It’s easy to cast the blame on those leaders.
And then I started talking to those leaders.
I asked one stake president how he goes about making sure STP is avoided in the wards in his stake.
He told me he’d love to spread the opportunity of leadership around, but he’s been shocked by the number of people who simply turn down callings.
They either decline the invitation to meet with leadership to begin with or turn down the invitation to serve when the call is extended, claiming they need to give more time to family or personal projects.
I don’t have a clear conclusion around this topic, but I thought it was interesting enough to put it out to the Leading Saints audience.
How I see things, there are two groups of people who are unintentionally (sometimes intentionally) pushing the STP to the top of the list for callings: Leaders & Potential Leaders
(I guess that’s basically everyone. ????)
Here are possible reasons why both these groups are perhaps contributing to this dynamic:
(I’m just thinking out loud here, so some of the following assumptions might be flawed or incorrect.)
Leaders
- Cognitive bias can interfere with revelation when the STP feel like really “comfortable” or reliable options.
- Leaders generally associate more with the STP and are more familiar with their capacity and personalities.
- Leaders are overwhelmed with the idea of having to mentor or train new specific leaders when they already have plenty to do, so it is easier to go with someone with experience.
Potential Leaders
- Over the last few decades, individuals have busier, more distracted lives and therefore have little bandwidth to invest in a church calling (unless it has higher social validation such as bishop, Relief Society president, or the stake presidency).
- Families are suffering more, and children demand more attention from their parents, so church callings become more of a distraction for them.
- Generally speaking, people are less religious, so they are less committed to accepting religious callings.
But, what do I know?
I’d love to hear what you are seeing and experiencing.
Does the STP issue exist in your ward/stake? If so, why?
Sincerely,
Kurt Francom
Executive Director
Leading Saints
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I see the pendulum swinging here. I remember growing up hearing leaders from my local ward and stake and similar themes in General Conference to the effect that we should never turn down callings, that when we are called we should always answer that call. The underlying message being that all calls were revelatory so it was the same as God calling you. In that same vein then, there was always this fear of missing out or eternal consequence attached to saying no. It is my observation that callings are revelatory sometimes and not others. Personally, I’ve observed the outcome of “always say yes” in many instances over my lifetime and I have to say it is not pretty. I’ve seen the outcomes of “sacrificing everything” for the church, also not pretty in many instances. I think what we are seeing here, in part, is the scale balancing the other way. If family really is the basic unit, then that is where the priority needs to lie. And we are seeing people be more aware of their limits and starting to believe it really is ok to say no. On the other hand, we tend to be good at overcorrecting so there is probably some of that as well.
Over the past few decades, the church has been divesting itself of many programs, maybe we do the same thing with the long list of callings we think we need to fill. I think there is something to be said in letting someone have a break from having any callings so they can just participate.